Popular Nigerian singer Tekno has stirred conversations online after sharing his candid views on the evolving state of marriages and relationships in contemporary society. The artist expressed concern that genuine love has become increasingly rare, attributing part of the change to the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic on personal connections.
During a recent interview with Cool FM, Tekno observed that extended time spent together during lockdowns may have led many couples to realise they were not truly compatible. “People got to spend time with their partners that period so maybe they got to realize they don’t really like them. I feel like since then, people have leaned into this not wanting to love as much,” he explained. He further claimed that marriages no longer seem to function as they once did, pointing to instances where wives of respected public figures and legends are reportedly being pursued by younger men.
Tekno contrasted today’s relationship dynamics with past eras when love felt more authentic and central to daily life. He noted that even Nollywood movies heavily revolved around romantic storylines, unlike current content that focuses more on clout and influencing. The singer lamented what he sees as a decline in organic romance, suggesting society has moved away from wholehearted emotional investment.
Emphasising the need for balance, Tekno advised that partners should appreciate each other’s absence as much as their presence. “If you can’t appreciate the absence, the presence doesn’t really make sense,” he stated. His frank opinions have resonated with many listeners while sparking debates about the impact of the pandemic on long-term commitments and shifting generational attitudes toward marriage.
The comments from the talented musician come amid broader discussions on relationship trends in Nigeria, reflecting how social, economic, and technological changes continue to reshape personal bonds in the digital age.