Award-winning British-Sierra Leonean journalist and former CNN International anchor Isha Sesay has opened up about her decision to become a single mother at 47 through in vitro fertilization, describing it as a powerful embrace of her personal autonomy. In a candid interview with Larry Madowo on African Voices, Sesay revealed that while motherhood was always part of her life plan, her demanding journalism career took center stage during her years at CNN.
Everything shifted for her after her mother suffered a catastrophic stroke, prompting deep reflection on life priorities and the passage of time. As her biological clock ticked, Sesay chose not to wait indefinitely for the perfect partner. She emphasized that her choice was not a rejection of men but a personal affirmation of independence and self-determination.
“Not having a child would be the greatest regret of my life,” Sesay said, explaining that delaying motherhood in hopes of finding the right man could have left her out of time. Her path involved multiple challenges, including several IVF cycles, fibroid surgery, hormone treatments, and failed embryo transfers before she welcomed her daughter in 2024.
The experience also intersected with her caregiving responsibilities for her mother, who remained in a semi-conscious state for nearly nine years until her passing in June 2025. This period ultimately influenced Sesay’s decision to leave CNN after 13 years of dedicated service.
Through it all, Sesay’s story highlights resilience amid professional success, family loss, and the emotional demands of fertility treatments. Her openness offers insight into the choices many women face when balancing career ambitions with the desire for motherhood on their own terms.